Not long ago, I found myself in a client meeting, sitting opposite a senior manager from an overseas parent company. Before him at the conference table he had laid out three telephones, a computer and a tablet. He was also attempting to pay attention to a web-delivered audiovisual presentation, supplemented by comments from his five colleagues in the room and our three-person consulting team. We found ourselves repeating material he had missed while responding to a ping from one of his devices. He struggled to handle it all and his face showed the strain. This kind of situation is not rare. We’ve all been in meetings where every person there is active on at least two devices while – theoretically at least – also paying attention to the substance of the discussion. These days, the only thing as ubiquitous as electronic media is commentary about the ubiquity of electronic media, in meetings and everywhere else. One main thread in the conversation has to do with stress. Does social medial use so overload our senses and interrupt our thinking that our stress increases along with our connectedness, as it did for our overseas colleague? Or, conversely, does being connected to other people through accessible, always-on technology actually strengthen personal bonds and reduce our stress?
The answer, it seems, is both.
THE LIGHT SIDE: STRESS REDUCTION
According to findings from a study by the Pew Research Center, frequent internet and social media users do not necessarily experience increased stress. Certainly, those who perform knowledge work are greatly aided by the expanded access to colleagues and information provided by digital media. It’s hard to imagine getting through a workday without electronic tools that provide instant connections with
helpful co-workers or immediate answers to difficult questions. In this context, technology’s effect on our working lives has certainly been labor-saving as well as
stress-reducing. Beyond the work tool function, the use of digital media to build relationships can also mitigate personal stress. The positive effect emerges most strongly for women. The Pew Research analysis found, for example, that a woman who uses Twitter several times daily, who sends or receives 25 emails per day and who shares two digital pictures through a mobile phone per day scores 21% lower on a measure of stress than a woman who does not use these technologies. For men, the researchers found no relationship between psychological stress and frequent uses of social media, mobile phones or the internet more broadly. Women, it seems, not only do a better job of relationship-building in general, but also prove to be more adept than me at using digital media to maintain those connections.
THE DARK SIDE: STRESS INCREASE
But there are other dimensions to the story of digital media and stress. Researchers from the University of St. Gallen in Switzerland studied technostress, the result of having more content than one can attend to without anxiety. They found three major phenomena are most directly associated with stress:
- Overload – increased work because of the volume and variety of social media contact.
- Invasion – intrusion of work into personal life, caused by personal media connections.
- Uncertainty – continuous and unpredictable change in social media applications and requirements.
The pressures associated with managing the sheer volume of electronic stimulus are heavy enough, but they are compounded by the leakage of media-borne content across the boundary that once separated our work and personal lives. The quest for work/life balance has given way to tolerance for work/life integration. We can no longer easily differentiate blocks of toil and leisure, business and personal, time on and time off. The next innovation will only add to the stress from overload and invasion as we struggle to master new filaments of connection. Even the network-building advantages of social media may have a dark side. Perhaps learning of our friends’ latest professional successes, or their fantastic tropical vacations, or their children’s triumphs on the soccer field increases envy driven stress. Alternatively, it may be that some of us feel pressure to carefully curate the presentation of our own lives, highlighting the great birthday party but hiding the impending divorce. We don’t yet know for sure whether network participation causes stress, or whether it simply attracts people prone to angst. Nevertheless, as the chart below suggests, some relationship exists, with 83% of social media participants saying they are somewhat or very stressed, compared with 72% of non-participants.
Moreover, stress can be as contagious as the common cold, with social media acting as one disease vector. Our natural human tendency to be empathetic makes us sensitive to distressing events in the lives of network members. The more social media connections we have, the greater that awareness may become, as may the risk of stress contagion. The above mentioned Pew Research Center analysis concluded that caring about others brings a cost that increases when social media expand our exposure to others’ unfortunate circumstances. Our ubiquitous connectivity also brings other sources of tension, including a decline in civility. Model Chrissy Teigen recently lashed out at online critics who posted nasty comments about her weight in response to a photo she had uploaded to Instagram.com. “In what other real-life situation would you walk up to someone and tell them they’re fat or gained weight?” she asked. Good question. Electronically mediated interactions are more anonymous and often more bluntly negative than face-to-face encounters.
Dealing with the stress generated by social media connections begins with awareness. Some people even go as far as to keep a journal of their interactions and responses. They refer to their notes so they can identify the situations that cause the most stress and find ways to react to those. With awareness as a foundation, coping strategies fall into three general categories:
- Limitation – Finding ways to switch off, by setting aside time during which media links are disconnected or ignored. A related strategy is to become selective about outreach and responses. Uncontrolled obligation is a well-recognized cause of stress; reducing obligations can be an effective strategy. Not every outreach needs or deserves a response, at least not immediately. Not every person who wants to make contact should have the same priority. Not every thought or experience is worthy of sharing with anyone, let alone everyone.
- Substitution – Replacing digital communication with personal human contact. Finding time for face-to-face conversation creates the opportunity for real-time connection, for rich communication, for sorting through complex issues. On the one hand, direct personal communication won’t always be stress-free. On the other hand, its immediacy and intimacy allow for greater emotional catharsis than technology-mediated contacts usually afford.
- Processing improvement – Avoiding the temptation to multitask as a response to digital media overload and intrusion. Multitasking can seem to be a sensible response to a tsunami of media volume. Studies show, however, that only about 2% of people can perform effectively at simultaneous jobs. Moreover, research suggests that multitasking ability does not improve with practice. Heavy media multitaskers actually have increased difficulty filtering irrelevant stimuli from their environments. In contrast, those who consistently focus on fewer tasks do a better job of keeping their attention on a principal goal and ignoring unimportant distractions. They employ what psychologists call top-down attentional control. This means they have the ability to test incoming stimuli by asking, “Does it help me perform better at the important thing I’m doing right now? If so, I attend and respond. If not, I defer response.” Habitual multitaskers do this poorly. Clearly, digital media use confers a mixed blessing. It informs and distracts, energizes and depresses, builds and breaks bonds and so brings both pleasure and pain. Our digital interactions play to our deepest human needs for intellectual and emotional stimulus, and are therefore subject to overuse, abuse and even addiction. At the same time, they afford the means for almost infinite expansion of the kinds of sharing that make human lives most gratifying. How mindfully, carefully and judiciously we use these tools will determine whether they help or harm us. To paraphrase Shakespeare’s Cassius, the fault – and the opportunity – lies not in our connections, but in ourselves.
Thomas O. Davenport is a senior consultant in Towers Watson’s Research and Innovation Center
This post is published as part of a blog series by the Human Implications of Digital Media project.